Couples Therapy
I provide compassionate and effective couples therapy, focusing on improving communication, resolving conflicts, and strengthening emotional connections.
Hello, I am Allison Fender, LPC
With over 15 years of expertise in the mental health field, I am a highly experienced therapist dedicated to providing personalized and compassionate care. Since 2017, I have been in private practice, drawing from my diverse background in community mental health, substance abuse treatment, hospital emergency rooms, and innovative therapies such as equine and animal-assisted therapy. My approach is tailored to meet each client’s unique needs, ensuring that you receive the most effective and supportive care possible.
Currently, I offer my services via telehealth, making therapy convenient and accessible from the comfort of your own home. I hold a license in the state of Georgia (LPC009001) and accept most major insurance plans, including Medicaid, VA, and Tricare, to ensure that mental health support is within reach for everyone. My extensive experience, coupled with a commitment to accessibility and personalized care, makes me a trusted and reliable choice for those seeking individual therapy.
Attending Couples Therapy Alone or With Your Partner
Individual Couples Therapy
I offer the option of meeting with one spouse at a time to address individual concerns and perspectives within the relationship. This approach allows each partner to openly express their feelings and challenges without the immediate presence of their spouse, facilitating deeper self-reflection and personal growth. By working individually, I can help each partner develop healthier communication skills and coping strategies, which can then be brought back to the relationship to foster a more understanding and supportive dynamic.
With Your Partner
Reasons for Couples Therapy
Communication Issues
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When working with couples on communication issues, I focus on creating a safe and supportive environment where both partners feel heard and understood. I teach effective communication techniques that promote active listening, empathy, and clear expression of thoughts and feelings. By identifying and addressing negative communication patterns, I help couples develop healthier ways of interacting. My goal is to enhance your ability to connect and understand each other, leading to a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.
Sexual Therapy
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In my sexual therapy sessions, I provide a safe and open environment for couples to address and resolve sexual issues and concerns. My approach is compassionate and non-judgmental, focusing on improving communication and understanding between partners regarding their sexual needs and desires. By exploring physical, emotional, and psychological aspects of sexuality, I help couples enhance intimacy, overcome sexual dysfunction, and build a more satisfying sexual relationship. My goal is to support you in creating a healthy and fulfilling sexual connection that strengthens your overall relationship.
Partner Infidelity
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When working with couples dealing with partner infidelity, I provide a safe and non-judgmental space for both partners to express their emotions and concerns. My approach focuses on rebuilding trust, improving communication, and addressing the underlying issues that led to the infidelity. I guide couples through the healing process, helping them to understand and forgive, and work towards rebuilding a stronger, more resilient relationship. Through compassionate support and evidence-based strategies, I assist you in navigating this difficult period and moving forward together.
Non Traditional Relationship
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In my sessions for non-traditional relationships, I offer a supportive and inclusive space for partners to explore and address their unique dynamics and challenges. I understand that non-traditional relationships, such as polyamory, open relationships, and other diverse relationship structures, require tailored guidance and communication strategies. My approach is non-judgmental and affirming, focusing on helping you navigate boundaries, enhance communication, and ensure that all partners feel respected and valued. Together, we work towards creating a healthy, balanced, and fulfilling relationship that honors the individuality and needs of everyone involved.
Premarital Counseling
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In my premarital counseling sessions, I help couples prepare for a successful and fulfilling marriage by addressing important topics and potential challenges before they arise. We focus on building strong communication skills, understanding each other’s values and expectations, and developing conflict resolution strategies. By exploring key areas such as finances, family dynamics, and future goals, I provide couples with the tools and insights needed to create a solid foundation for their life together. My goal is to equip you both with the knowledge and skills to navigate your marriage with confidence and mutual respect.
Trust Problems
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When working with couples facing trust problems, I provide a safe and supportive environment to openly discuss and address these issues. My approach focuses on understanding the root causes of the trust issues and facilitating honest and transparent communication between partners. Through evidence-based strategies, I help you rebuild trust, develop healthier communication patterns, and strengthen your emotional connection. My goal is to support you in creating a more secure and trusting relationship, fostering a deeper sense of understanding and intimacy.
My Approach to Couples Therapy
In my couples therapy sessions, I focus on enhancing communication, resolving conflicts, and strengthening the emotional connection between partners. I understand that every relationship has its unique challenges, and I tailor my approach to meet the specific needs of each couple. By creating a safe and non-judgmental space, I encourage both partners to openly express their thoughts and feelings, fostering a deeper understanding of each other’s perspectives.
I use evidence-based techniques to help couples identify and address underlying issues that may be causing strain in their relationship. Whether you are dealing with infidelity, communication breakdowns, or general dissatisfaction, my goal is to provide you with the tools and strategies needed to navigate these challenges effectively. Through our sessions, we will work on building trust, improving intimacy, and developing healthier patterns of interaction.
My person-centered approach emphasizes collaboration and mutual respect. I believe that with the right support and guidance, couples can overcome obstacles and create a more fulfilling and harmonious relationship. I am committed to helping you and your partner rediscover the strengths in your relationship, enhance your emotional bond, and achieve long-term satisfaction and happiness together.
Frequently Asked Questions
What issues can couples counseling help with?
- Couples counseling can help with a variety of issues, including communication problems, infidelity, trust issues, intimacy concerns, conflict resolution, and navigating life transitions.
What can we expect during a couples counseling session?
- During a couples counseling session, both partners will have the opportunity to express their thoughts and feelings in a safe, non-judgmental environment. I will guide the conversation, help identify underlying issues, and provide tools and strategies to improve communication and resolve conflicts.
How long does couples counseling usually take?
- The duration of couples counseling varies depending on the specific needs and goals of the couple. Some couples may see significant improvements in a few sessions, while others may benefit from ongoing therapy over several months.
Do both partners need to attend every session?
- While it is beneficial for both partners to attend sessions together, there may be times when individual sessions are recommended to address specific issues or perspectives. This can complement the joint sessions and provide a more comprehensive approach to therapy.
Is couples counseling only for married couples?
- No, couples counseling is for any couple in a committed relationship, regardless of marital status. It can benefit dating, engaged, cohabitating, and married couples who are seeking to improve their relationship.
How do we know if couples counseling is right for us?
- If you and your partner are experiencing ongoing conflicts, communication issues, or a sense of disconnection, couples counseling can provide valuable support and guidance. It can help you address challenges, rebuild trust, and strengthen your relationship. If you’re unsure, an initial consultation can help determine if couples counseling is the right choice for you.